I'm a 34-year-old, married, and I have a child.

I'm immersed in the startup ecosystem.

I've seen both ends of the spectrum.

The relentless hustle and the quiet stagnation.

Over time, I've found a middle ground that prioritizes balance over burnout. My wins haven't come from extraordinary advantages, but rather from deliberate choices and a refusal to equate success with constant pressure.

That said, I also know not everyone has the privilege to pause or find balance right now. Sometimes, life demands that you keep hustling to stay afloat, and I respect the grind that so many are in.

I get messages from certain folks sharing their latest milestones every few months. I respond with a simple, "That's awesome, buddy. Happy for you," because what else is there to say? I see your hustle on X, your efforts to stay relevant, and, sometimes, the cracks behind the polished persona. Having worked with some of you, I know the behind-the-scenes reality. And I'm genuinely happy for you.

I’ve worked hard to find my balance and don’t take it for granted. I don’t earn a lot, but I’m happy with what I make. Some of the best things in my life happened when I took the pressure off and let myself be. Life became simpler when I realized that not every goal needs to be monumental.

☕ Here's to those who've found that sweet spot - and those still working toward it. Your journey is valid wherever you are.