Embracing uncertainties
I disliked not knowing or being unsure about things for most of my life. Uncertainty made me uncomfortable, and I would avoid situations that did not have clear answers. I wanted life to be straightforward and problems to have definite solutions.
It took many experiences of being wrong to realize that uncertainties are a normal part of living and learning. Having all the facts is a rare luxury, and new questions are constantly emerging, given our limited perspective and expanding knowledge. Trying to eliminate all ambiguities sets oneself up for frustration and may close the mind to new ideas.
I've seen uncertainty as an opportunity rather than something to fear or quickly resolve. Not having all the details challenges me to be curious, think broadly, listen with an open mind, and suspend judgment. It fosters questioning habits that help uncover subtle aspects I may have missed. I can experiment thoughtfully and adjust my approach based on what transpires instead of insisting on being right from the outset.
Major life decisions like career paths or relationships will always involve uncertainty. Trying to plan every detail or have reassurance takes away from the adventure. Trusting in my ability to navigate ambiguous situations while maintaining an open and curious spirit has served me well.
Some level of doubt about the future is healthy and prevents overconfidence. I try to appreciate uncertainty for what it allows - room for discovery, flexibility in perspectives, and continual growth rather than arriving at rigid conclusions too early. Life presents us with unpredictability, and the ability to find richness in uncertainty makes each new challenge an invitation for deeper understanding.