Bring your authentic self.
The following piece is from an observer's point of view.
We've all heard the classic social media advice for creators - provide value. Post only helpful, insightful content that educates or services your audience.
However, I've noticed that this approach isn't always an effective way to succeed. Sure, your content needs to offer some utility or entertainment for people.
But I believe the better strategy is to focus first on being unique.
Why?
True connection happens through emotional revelation, not detachment.
When we share our real experiences, perspectives, and feelings rather than stock templates, we evoke emotions in others and forge loyal bonds that last.
Standard value leaves readers as consumers.
Authenticity makes them active participants - it invites investment in our humanity rather than surface satisfaction of temporary needs.
That's the difference between followers and real community.
To maintain relevance long-term, we must evolve - and evolution requires risk. Copying trends leads to more copying as we chase momentary likes over sustained empathy.
Prioritizing uniqueness means rocking the boat, risking criticism from those seeking rigorously formulaic approaches.
Indeed, uniqueness takes courage. But its rewards far outweigh fleeting "value."
When we stay true to who we naturally are rather than strategizing generic content, we welcome genuine connections. We also protect our creativity from follower-based burnout.
Unless we dare to let our true colors show through flaws and all, any value we provide remains impersonal and forgettable. Readers feel us far more than any impacts we calculate.
So next time you post, ask not "What value can I give?" but "How can I share meaningfully from my heart?"
That shift from output to vulnerability builds community - a community that knows your true self is your strongest asset.
Staying real keeps audiences engaged forever.
Note: Being yourself isn't a license to be harmful.